Fix stale auth cache denial after grants #29920

Job	Run time
unit-test (17, ubuntu-latest, others)	19m 38s
unit-test (17, ubuntu-latest, datanode)	22m 43s
unit-test (17, windows-latest, others)	28m 22s
unit-test (17, windows-latest, datanode)	32m 44s
	1h 43m 27s

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