[8.8.0] Add --experimental_max_repeated_lost_inputs to make the action-rewinding lost-input limit configurable

[bazel-io]

Forked from #30164

[bazel-io]

Cherry-pick was attempted but there were merge conflicts in the following file(s). Please resolve manually.

src/main/java/com/google/devtools/build/lib/buildtool/BuildRequestOptions.java
src/main/java/com/google/devtools/build/lib/skyframe/SkyframeActionExecutor.java
src/main/java/com/google/devtools/build/lib/skyframe/rewinding/ActionRewindStrategy.java
src/test/java/com/google/devtools/build/lib/skyframe/rewinding/RewindingTestsHelper.java

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