use new resolve hook api, as current style gives deprecation warning

see https://nodejs.org/api/esm.html#hooks, need to figure out how this chaining works, but basically we return the format from resolve, put something like this after calling resolveWithEsBuild:
```
+    if (resolution?.url && forceESM(global.ImportTrackingConfig, resolution.url)) {
+        resolution.format = "module";
+    }
```
