Switch to socket2

[modship]

* [ ] set lingering time to be the same as the send timeout: https://doc.rust-lang.org/std/net/struct.TcpStream.html#method.set_linger (and equivalent on QUIC)

Originally posted by @damip in massalabs/massa#4109 (comment)

Switch to socket2

[damip]

No need to completely switch to socket2.
You can temporarily convert the socket to a socket2 socket, set the linger, and then reconvert it back to a TcpStream