node-api: execute tsfn finalizer after queue drains when aborted #3589

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	2m 7s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	19m 21s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	19m 29s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	26m 9s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	22m 7s
	1h 29m 13s

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