Upgrade sqlx and implement db detection #1720

Job	Run time
compile_and_lint	2m 33s
test (postgres, postgres, postgres://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	2m 13s
test (odbc, postgres, Driver={PostgreSQL Unicode};Server=127.0.0.1;Port=5432;Database=sqlpage;UID...	4m 34s
docker_build (linux/arm64)	8m 55s
windows_test	3m 9s
docker_build (linux/arm/v7)	9m 1s
test (mysql, mysql, mysql://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	1m 56s
docker_build (linux/amd64)	20s
test (mssql, mssql, mssql://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	2m 6s
docker_push	0s
	34m 47s

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