make sure to only call onRender when NativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider is not destroyed (#54481)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: #54481

## Changelog:

[iOS] [Fixed] - make sure to only call onRender when NativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider is not destroyed

Reviewed By: rozele

Differential Revision: D86680109

fbshipit-source-id: 91b713b03d4dc7d1c16b444a89c136c8eed299f8

Author: zeyap

packages/react-native/ReactApple/RCTAnimatedModuleProvider/RCTAnimatedModuleProvider.mm

@@ -24,6 +24,8 @@ @implementation RCTAnimatedModuleProvider {
   CADisplayLink *_displayLink;
 #endif
   std::function<void()> _onRender;
+
+  std::weak_ptr<facebook::react::NativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider> _nativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider;
 }
 
 - (void)dealloc
@@ -48,7 +50,7 @@ - (void)dealloc
 
 - (void)_onDisplayLinkTick
 {
-  if (_displayLink != nullptr && _onRender != nullptr) {
+  if (_nativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider.lock() != nullptr && _displayLink != nullptr && _onRender != nullptr) {
     _onRender();
   }
 }
@@ -110,6 +112,7 @@ - (void)_onDisplayLinkTick
               stop_render();
             }
           });
+      _nativeAnimatedNodesManagerProvider = provider;
       return std::make_shared<facebook::react::AnimatedModule>(std::move(jsInvoker), std::move(provider));
     }
   }